You Got Used, Now What?

It’s never awesome to realize that you got used by a woman. It’s damaging to your reputation, self esteem, and especially your feelings. Not to get all mushy here, but we have those too, and they’re just as breakable. Some guys might sit around moping over the woman that had them as long as a knock-off purse, but you don’t have to be that guy. We’re not saying you just have to man up and get over it, but we are saying that there is life after being used. She Used You for Money Some gold diggers out there don’t care what a guy’s about if they have money. He could be old, fat, smelly, perverted, or about a million other things but as long as he shells out some sort of cash she’ll play along and be his. If you’re one of these unlucky guys then you’ve most likely lost more than a few tears. Technically all the money that you’ve spent on her has been a gift, so you can’t really take it back or anything. What to Do Now Well now that she’s out of your life look on the bright side: you don’t have to spend more money. You’ve obviously got some well paying job or…

Women You Should Avoid in Bars and Clubs

Knowing what kind of women to approach in bars is often tricky enough, since you have to carefully plan your approach and what you’re going to say that will make you stand out from all the other guys who are probably approaching her all night long. However, there are certain types of women that often frequent bars and clubs that you actually want to avoid. They will either be a complete waste of your time, or they will turn you down instantly, or they want something different than what you want. Being able to recognize the types of women that you should avoid in bars will help you have a more successful and less stressful night. The Woman Who’s Guarded Women often go to bars and clubs in packs, so you’re likely to see a woman hanging out with a group of her friends. These are often the most difficult women to approach and you will be much better off skipping her entirely and trying to find someone else to approach. The reason for this is because her friends are often acting as a sort of bodyguards, so she will be much more difficult to talk to. Sometimes you may even see a woman who looks like she’s on her…

Why You Should Watch Porn Together

Most women think that men want to watch porn with their girlfriends anytime they can, but that’s not always true. Porn is sacred to a man. This is something that speaks to the basest level of a man’s needs. Sometimes those needs are kinky as hell and other times they might be surprisingly tender. Letting your woman in on that is almost like asking her to move in with you, but harder. The thing is that if you can get over that hurdle, you’re going to end up having awesome sex. It’s a magic formula that works every time, and here’s why: It’s Inspiration These people are absolute professionals. Like hookers, they fuck for money so you know that they’ve picked up a trick or two along the way. It doesn’t matter if it’s fetish porn or plain point of view porn. These people know what’s up. So that means that they can teach you things you wouldn’t have thought of. Of course you know this, but your woman probably doesn’t. Watching it will give her more of an idea of what you like since you’ve obviously picked this out. She may have never thought to caress your balls while going down on you if it weren’t for that busty…

Why You Might Want to Settle for Her Less Attractive Friend

You have probably been out at the bar or club plenty of times and noticed a woman who seems to be there with her friend. Usually, one of the women is a lot more attractive than the other. You probably always want to go for the hotter woman, but you might be surprised to know that there can be some big advantages to choosing to go after the less attractive woman in the pair. Of course, you should avoid doing this is the friend she’s with is seriously unattractive, but usually there isn’t that big of a difference between the attractiveness of the two women. It Makes You Seem More Appealing to the Other Woman This is one of the biggest draws of choosing to sleep with the less attractive friend, though it might not always work. Chances are that the hotter woman has been trying to get her friend hooked up with a guy for a long time, and if you show interest in her she might be extremely grateful to you. It will also make you more attractive to her since you show an interest in women who may not be the hottest girl in the room. This might seem strange to you, but it generally is how…

Why She’s Playing Coy

Women might think that playing coy is the best way to get a guy, but in actuality it’s annoying as hell. She won’t return your calls, but when you see her she flirts up a storm. Or she might be telling you that she doesn’t want a boyfriend, but then she has you over every day and bakes you cookies. It’s playing opposites that’s the most annoying part. While you might want to leave her confusing ways behind you, you can’t. That’s exactly what she wants, too. But why? She Wants You to Want Her Women can be extremely insecure. It’s actually a rarity to find a woman who’s in love with herself and totally fine with how she looks. That leaves most women needing a boost of some sort to feel good. When she’s pulling the strings and telling you all of this confusing bull crap she’s just looking for your reassuring words. She wants to hear how much you want her and wish you could be with her. It gives her a high that momentarily makes her feel pretty. If you could bottle that process you’d make millions, because it’s one of the strongest feelings a woman can get. She Doesn’t Want to Seem Slutty Coming out right…

Why Having a Threesome with Her and Another Guy Might Actually Be a Good Thing

Threesomes are almost considered the Holy Grail of sexual experiences, and with good reason. It can often be extremely difficult to convince women to have a threesome, so it is often viewed with almost a sense of awe. Convincing a woman to have a threesome is one thing, but it is an entirely different matter if she seems to want a threesome with you and another guy instead of you and another woman. Your first inclination might be to refuse the idea outright, but it could be seriously to your advantage to at least give it a shot. It Might Be Better Than You Think Having a threesome with two women is probably your ideal fantasy, but sometimes you have to settle for letting your girlfriend or hookup have her way and bring another man into the bedroom. You should remember that just because she wants to bring in another guy does not mean you’re inadequate as a lover, just that she wants to try something new. You might not really enjoy the presence of another guy in bed with you, but try not to focus on him. Focus on your woman and not on the other guy there, and he will likely do the same. Most women would die…

Why Buying Her a Drink from across the Bar Might Kill Your Chances

You have probably been tempted on plenty of occasions to be the guy that buys women a drink from across the bar to signal your interest. Maybe you saw it in a movie or maybe you’ve seen other guys do it. It seems like a good idea at first, and it may work for you every now and then, but in general it might be a bad idea to buy her a drink from across the bar. It might not seem like it, but it may actually wind up hurting your chances of getting to talk to her or hooking up with her at the end of the night. Knowing some of the reasons why this type of move might bother some women will help you judge whether or not you should go for it. It Might Come Off As Creepy or Not Forward Enough Sometimes buying a woman a drink from across the bar can have the opposite effect of what you wanted. She might think you are being a little strange or creepy by not coming over to her directly to buy her a drink, and if she gets that feeling it’ll be hard for you to move on from it. She might not also like the indirect…

When to Accept Failure and When to Keep Trying

Striking out with a woman in a club or bar is one of the worst things that can happen, and it can be a crushing defeat if you put a lot of effort into talking to the woman you were trying to attract. Sometimes it just happens, and you need to be able to move on from it so that you can meet as many women as possible. You might not realize that sometimes you should keep trying with a woman you think you’ve lost all hope with, however. It might not be easy to tell, but there are some things you can still recover from and keep her interest. Checking to See if She’s Really Bored If a woman seems disinterested in you, this is not the end. You can still recover from her seeming dreadfully bored, though it might be difficult. If you are not super interested in her, you might want to cut your ties at this stage and move on to a different woman. Otherwise, all you need to do is try to get her to talk about herself a bit more and steer the conversation more towards her interests. Lead the conversation instead of letting it falter. Her being bored will not kill your chances,…

What to Say When She Says She Wants More

Sooner or later, your fling or casual girlfriend is either going to break up with you or she’s going to ask to take things to the next level. It’s hard to know what to say when you were happy and now she wants more. If you don’t want to level up your relationship, there are three main ways that you can approach telling her that you just want to be casual. You’re Not in a Stable Place in Your Life This is a great line for men who have just gotten out of college and/or are career transitioning. She knows how precarious everything is for you, and she knows that you’re still trying to sort out who you are and how your life is going to be. She’s probably hoping that a relationship will help define you. Just tell her that you want to define yourself apart from a relationship right now. You want to get everything worked out. Once you know how your life is going to be, you’ll be in a better place to commit to someone. Until then… maybe the two of you should just keep things casual. You Want to Wait for That until You’re Done Working so Hard If you’ve just started a new career…

What Hobbies You Should Try to Get into in Order to Attract More Women

If you have been out trying to meet and hook up with women, you’ve probably run into this situation plenty of times. You meet the woman of your dreams and you want to try and get close to her and maybe hook up, but it turns out you have nothing in common and you can’t catch her interest at all. You might have even taking up lying about your hobbies in order to do this, but that rarely ends well when it turns out you don’t know what you’re talking about. The best way to combat this is by trying to broaden your horizons and actually trying out enough hobbies so that you can relate to the kind of women you want to attract. Attracting Geeky Girls If you want to make geeky girls like you, and there are some serious benefits to going after geeky girls, you need to try and get into their hobbies. This usually means that you need to try and watch the television shows that are most popular with geeky or nerdy girls. You might want to try playing more video games than you normally do, and make sure to read more fantasy novels than you might already read. Doing any or all of these…

Three Mistakes in Almost Every Online Profile

There are three common flaws in almost every man’s online profile. If you’ve made them, there’s no shame in it. You just know the things that you need to redo if you want to reach the hot ladies that you see online all the time. Change up these three things, and you’ll be shocked how fast the dates pile up. Boring Profile Pic Is your profile picture a picture of your face, smiling? Or maybe a full body shot against a cluttered background, without a lot to distinguish you? Boring. A woman on an online dating site sees dozens of pictures like that one every time that she logs on. What you need is a dynamic action shot. This can be tricky to arrange if you don’t have access to a real camera or a photographer. Still, if you can have a buddy tag along on your workout and just snap a couple of pictures while you’re doing bench presses or getting your jog on through some mud, that would be best. You want your profile picture to be of you doing something interesting and dynamic. You want to impress her from the very first glance. Too Much Information One line profiles aren’t going to get you many hits, but…

The Language of Love: Getting with a Woman Who Speaks a Different Language

People always seem to be attracted to anything foreign: cars, wines, clothes, but most of all women. Latin lovers, California girls, Asian beauties, and so many more seem to demand our attention when they walk in a room just because they are so much different than what we normally see. With most people these days English is at least feasible, but that’s not always the case. If you’re looking to get it on with a foreign beauty then you’re going to have to get a little creative. Why Words Don’t Really Matter Guys who live in the same country as these women have moderate success, just like we would with Canadian women. But when they come to our countries they’re actually looking to have a good time. That makes them so much more likely to go out with some random guy and get it on. Because of this it actually takes off some of the pressure of trying to impress them. You’re going to have to rely on your looks and body language to get the message across. Let Your Body Do the Talking When you do go up to this exotic wonder and say “hello” you’ll have to start using your body to talk to her. Of course you…

Telling Her What She Wants to Hear

When it comes to hooking up with ladies, sometimes you just need to tell her what she wants to hear. This will make it that much easier for you to get laid, and honestly, these are all one-night stands or maybe just a quickie every few weeks or so. You aren’t going to need to keep every single lie straight with these women, and at the end of the day, who cares? You’ll barely ever see her again, so little white lies will get you a long way…and they’ll definitely get you into her bed. You Don’t Always Have to be Truthful Here’s the thing that a lot of guys just don’t understand: you don’t always have to be truthful. Remember that these women are just hookups and not long-term relationships. When you’re just telling her what she wants to hear in order to get in bed with her, it isn’t like you’re really hurting her. Obviously, you should make sure that you are keeping your lies to things that really don’t matter. If it’s just a matter of what your real kinks are, then whatever–lie for the sake of getting into her pants. If it’s a matter of what STDs you have, then obviously, you shouldn’t be a liar…

Telling Her That YOU Want to Use Protection

Usually, you hear about guys that don’t want to use condoms because of ‘insert reason here.’ The fact of the matter is that a lot of guys are actually smarter about it than women when it comes to hookups, and that’s because they really don’t want to end up knocking up some random girl that they’ll never see again. If you end up with a hookup that just doesn’t want you to use a condom at all, that’s when you need to start being wary–and when you really need to be firm about bringing out those condoms and strapping them on in spades. Be Firm About It Here’s the thing–condoms are a good idea. If she doesn’t realize that by now, then it’s time for you to break down a little bit of sexual education for her. Tell her about how you really just want to be safe, no matter how honest you’ve been with one another. Tell her that you think it’s really important that the two of you have all the protection in the world, and that you want to make sure that absolutely nothing happens in the STD front when the two of you are together. If she still seems pretty pouty about you putting on a…

Talking About Your Geeky Interests So They Sound Cool and You Don’t Sound Like a Jerk

“Girls like geeks because they are intelligent” If you are a guy who tends to be more interested in geeky or nerdy hobbies than sports or physical activities, you might find it hard to talk to women about these hobbies without sounding like a total nerd. However, if you can figure out how to talk to women about your geeky hobbies in the right way, you can make yourself sound cool instead of weird. This can go a long way in making women want to hook up with you or date you, so it is a skill you should try your best to learn. Keep these simple ideas in mind when going to talk to women and you will do well. Don’t Talk Down to Her about Your Hobbies The last thing you want to do when trying to talk to women about your geeky or nerdy interests is to talk down to her about them. She might not have ever played a video game in her life or she may be a semi-professional competitive video game player, so you should be respectful when you talk about your hobbies. Give her the benefit of the doubt if she says she likes something that you like. After all, women can like…

Take Her on an Adventure Date and Hookup

Tired of “romantic” dates that just end up feeling boring? Have you taken a woman and still not had any indication that hooking up is in your future? If you want to shake up your dating life and jumpstart the physical side of a relationship you should consider taking her on an “adventure date” to speed the process. Get Her Heart Pounding An adventure date always involves physical activity, the type is up to you. Laser tag in the woods is a great, heart pounding sort of adventure. You can also join the geocacheing craze so that you can search the local parks for hidden treasure while competing against other teams. These little competitions are informal and fun, and the quirkiness will get her interested. Also, know that exercise releases endorphins. These are the happy chemicals in your brain, and they also make people feel close to one another. Get her blood pumping and you’ll find that she’s a lot more willing to do something physical when you get her home. Improved circulation on your part from recent exercise means that it’ll be something special for you, too. Show That You Work Great as a Team If you want your relationship to intensify, show her that it’s the two of…

Surprising Places to Pick Up Women

When you’re tired of the club and bar scene, there are still a few other places that you may be able to pickup women. In fact, some of these places may be right around the corner from you without you knowing about it. Instead of trying to think of locations that offer a broad selection of women, try narrowing down the type of women you’re looking for. Comic Book Store If you don’t have an issue with dating a geek girl, the comic book store can be a great place to pickup women. Many times faithful geek girls will come to the comic book store on certain days, so you may have to visit a few times a week to figure out the best possible chances of meeting up with her. You will also need to understand that not every geek girls will look the way you may imagine them. While some geek girls may have perfect figures and may look great in a pair of black-framed glasses, many of them do not fit that stereotype. It is best if you are open-minded when looking for women at a comic book store. Many times, the typical standard of beauty doesn’t apply there. Group Meetings It may seem odd, but group…

Should You Date a Bisexual Woman?

Bisexual women can be fun. They can also be a handful if you’re not sure what you’re getting yourself into. Before you decide that dating a bisexual woman is something that you have to do, make sure to take some time to learn about what it means to date a bisexual women and how it may affect you in both positive and negative ways. Will She Be What You Expect Her to Be? Bisexual women may not be for everyone. While you may think dating one could be everything you could ever ask for, you need to understand that not all bisexual women are the same. Believe it or not, many bisexual women have no desire to have threesomes with you and another woman. Lots of bisexual woman prefer to date one person and one person only without involving other people in their relationships. Some of them will even get offended if you suggest having a threesome with another woman or asking her if you can watch her and another woman. While there are some bisexual women that aren’t willing to have threesomes and bring other women into the bedroom, there are plenty who do. If you’re the type of man who prefers a monogamous and committed relationship, a bisexual…

She Looks Nothing Like Her Photos: Easy Excuses to End Your Date

There are few things worse than meeting up with a woman that you’ve met online only to discover that she looks nothing like her photos. When this happens, it can lead to a range of emotions from you. You may be angry that she lied to you, or you may be disappointed because you expected her to be one way and she isn’t. Regardless of how you’re feeling, when you want to get out of the situation without causing a scene, all you really need to do is brush up on your acting skills and get yourself out of a bad situation. Start Acting When you approach your date and realize that she looks nothing like you imagined, you should already begin putting your plan into action. The first thing you should do is start deciding how you should go about bailing on your date. If you want to go with something simple and easy, when you walk up to her, apologize in advance and tell her that you’re not feeling well, but that you didn’t want to cancel your date with her. Once the two of you begin your date, start faking the obvious signs of not feeling well. You can rub your stomach, look distressed, or cough loudly.…

Sexy Clothes You Can Wear During Your Hookup

Guys totally get the shaft when it comes to dressing up for a hookup. Ladies have sexy lingerie for every single body type, skin color, and hair color. What do guys get? Awkward joke outfits like a pair of underwear with an elephant’s trunk where your dick goes. That’s not sexy. That’s just going to make her laugh and make you feel like an idiot. Where are the male versions of teddies and corsets? Nowhere to be found, that’s where. Just because the industry doesn’t want to help us feel hot before we’re about to head in for the hookup doesn’t mean that we can’t do it ourselves. Men’s Thongs, Banana Hammocks, and Pouches There’s a need to list this just because they exist, but whether they’re “sexy” or not is up for debate. A majority of the world is probably going to laugh at your junk swinging low in one of these getups. But if you do happen to land a fling that find’s this sort of thing hot then you’re in luck. When you type in “sexy men’s underwear” in just about any search engine then you’re going to get thousands of hits back for just this sort of thing. If you’ve got the body and/or confidence for…

Rimming Safety Tips

Rimming is a subject that makes a lot of people cringe and run away, and hey, that’s kind of a thing. Anything involving the anus or butt can kind of make people a little squicky, and that’s okay and normal. There’s a good reason for it, too, and that’s because there’s a lot of bacteria down there that you really don’t want to end up dealing with or ingesting…and this why it’s so important to be safe and careful whenever you’re doing anything that involves rimming. Knowing some basic safety tips can really keep you from getting sick, or otherwise harming yourself when performing this particular sexual act. Consider Dental Dams Seriously, buy a bunch of them, or come up with makeshift ones. Saran wrap works in a pinch, but in general, they sell dental dams in stores that are really going to be the sort of thing that you want to use. It’s rarely a good idea to put your mouth directly against your hookup’s anus, and that’s because of all the bacteria that’s floating around down there. Most people also just don’t want to deal with the taste of that, and we can’t blame you on that fact, either. Any sort of barrier is going to better than…

Quickest Ways to Get Her to Relax Around You

When you want a woman to relax around you, there are a few steps you can take to make sure that she’s always comfortable while she’s in your company. The good thing about getting a woman to relax around you is that it is extremely simple and once she’s comfortable around you, she’ll be willing to get closer to you physically. Meet Her There One of the quickest ways to get a woman to relax around you is by arranging for her to meet you at wherever the two of you are going to have your date. Women feel a lot more comfortable if they have some type of control over where they are going and what they are doing. They also feel more comfortable if they feel like they can flee whenever they need to. If you arrange to meet a woman at the movie theater, do not suggest that you pick her up. Instead, ask her if you would like her to pick you up or if she would prefer to drive. She will more than likely say that she prefers to drive. Do not try to persuade her to ride with you, and especially do not try to convince her to pick you up. If she doesn’t…

Outside of the Bar: What to Do When You Realize She’s Ugly

It can come as a huge shock when you discover that the woman you’ve been trying to hookup with in the club is actually hideous once you get a good look at her. Instead, of making a scene and embarrassing both her and yourself, there are a couple of ways you can react when discovering that you’ve been flirting with an ugly woman. Go For It Anyway If you’ve already gone through the trouble of using your best pickup lines and buying drinks for an entire night, you may as well get some payout from it. If you discover that the woman you’ve been trying to hook up with is ugly, you can still have sex with her. However, you will want to make sure you do a couple of things to make sure you don’t have to deal with her ever again. If you’ve already given her your name, that’s fine. There’s nothing you can do about that. However, if you haven’t yet given her your number or any other contact information, than you should keep it that way. If she asks you for your number, give her a fake number or a fake email address to make sure she never contacts you after the two of you have…

Making a Fling Profile Pop

There are a lot of men looking to hookup online. You can throw together a fun fling profile in just a couple of minutes. Then time goes by and you start to wonder if you’re getting as many hits as you could be. Does your profile make you stand out from the pack, or are you getting lost in the crowd? Evaluate your profile in these lights to see if you’re doing what you can to make your profile pop. What Makes a Great Profile Pic You don’t want to have a picture of your sweet smiling face as your profile picture. When you’re trying to turn up the romance, flash those puppy dog eyes to get a woman to fall for you. When you’re just trying to get her to fall into your bed, skip those and focus on making your picture dynamic. Show that you’re an exciting guy. Sell her the idea of a fling as something fun and exciting. Flashing your abs in the bathroom isn’t as bad as a regular headshot, but you could do better. A great profile pic would be an action shot of you playing sports in the rain. Hobbies to Interest Her Your hobbies aren’t there to really tell her about yourself.…

Knowing When to Cut Your Losses and Move on to Another Woman

The process of trying to talk to women at bars or clubs can often be frustrating, especially when you feel like you’re not getting anywhere with the women you choose to chat up. This can be bad for you ego and might leave you feeling defeated at the end of the night, especially since it often takes courage to decide to talk to women in the first place. However, if you learn when to cut your losses and move on to a different woman, you can feel much better about your chances and likely leave the bar satisfied. She Seems Like She’s Bored If you are talking to a woman and she seems to spend more time looking away from you than making eye contact, chances are that she is not that interested in what you have to say. No guy wants to be boring, but sometimes things are just not going to work out. Your best method of coping with this is being able to recognize when she is genuinely disinterested in what you have to say. If you can tell when she’s bored, you will be able to decide to move on and smoothly exit the conversation. Don’t waste your time with a girl who is unlikely to…

Knowing What You Can Get Away with Lying About

When you start cruising bars or clubs to meet and hook up with women, you want to impress them. When you want to impress women, you might be tempted to try and lie to them about various aspects of your personality, life, or hobbies. This is usually not a good idea, but if you feel tempted to lie then you should know what you can lie about safely without really needing to worry about it coming to light later on. Knowing what you can reasonably get away with lying about will help you attract more women because it will likely make you seem more appealing or exciting. Remember when you lie about something you should keep it simple and consistent so you don’t trip yourself up later on. Your Past Experiences Lying about your past is one of the easiest lies to get away with, especially if you do not plan on spending time with the woman you are lying to. There is little risk that someone will be around to call you out on your lie, as long as you keep it fairly believable. Try not to get too extravagant with your lies. Keep it restricted to anything you can claim without her being able to disprove it. You…

How to Tell if She’s Faking Her Interest in You

Meeting and talking to women can be difficult even when you assume that they are being open and honest with you, but sometimes women wind up faking their interest in guys. There are several reasons for this, most of which revolve around wanting to be polite or just wanting the guy to go away without them having to say so. While this is unpleasant, sometimes it’s just the way the cookie crumbles. Whatever the reason is, if you learn how to recognize when women are not genuinely interested in you, you will have much better success when going out and meeting women to try and hook up with. She Seems to be Fidgeting a Lot Sometimes women fidget with their hair or clothes as a sign of attention, but this can be very misleading because it can also be a sign of nervousness or of her being uncomfortable. If the woman you’re talking to cannot seem to sit or stand still and spends a lot of time looking away from you and fussing with her clothing, hair, or jewelry, she may be trying to nonverbally communicate her lack of interest or comfort. If she holds your gaze while she fidgets, she may just be excited and nervous because of it.…

How to Talk to Her about Music without Sounding like a Fool

When trying to meet and hook up with women in bars or clubs, one subject you might try to talk about quite a lot is your musical taste. This can be a great conversation topic if you know how to play your cards right, but too often guys can wind up sounding like tools when they talk about their music taste. The last thing you want to do is drive the woman you’re chatting up away from you because you made her annoyed by talking about your taste in music. Knowing how to talk about your taste in music without sounding pretentious is hugely important. Don’t Act Like a Hipster One of the most annoying things people tend to do when talking about their taste in music is acting like a hipster. In this specific sense, that means pretending like you’re the only person who knows about a band. This may be true, but you should never start talking about a band by telling the woman you’re talking to that she’s probably never heard of them. This is incredibly annoying and will likely drive women off if you repeat it too often. It makes women think that you view them as ignorant to popular culture, or that she doesn’t have…

How to Recover After Calling Her the Wrong Name

When you call a woman by the wrong name, there are very few things you can do make up for it. However, if you are quick enough, you may be able to convince her to forgive you for your mistake. You will have to be quick and tactful in order to do this, and most importantly, you will have to give off the impression that you’re genuinely sorry. Act Quickly Depending on the situation, calling a woman by a name other than her own could have a disastrous effect. If you happen to call a woman by another name while you’re talking to her on the phone or are out on a first date with her, it is usually easy to recover quickly. The first thing you will need is your cell phone and someone you can call right away. It is best that this person is a woman or a man who knows how to disguise her voice to sound like a woman. When you call her by the wrong name, the first thing you should do is apologize. Afterward, explain to her that she reminds you of a female relative or a coworker. She probably won’t believe you, but that’s where the cell phone comes in. If you…

How to React When She Drastically Changes Her Look

Whether a new look makes her look great or horrible, there’s always a way to react to when a woman changes her look. If you don’t want to end up hurting her feelings or pissing her off, there are a few things you can do to make sure that you know how to react whenever you’re dating a woman who suddenly changes her look. Lie Lying is definitely the best policy, especially if you hate her new look. A woman may tell you that she wants you to be honest, but you can be rest assured that she’s not being honest. If she changes her look and asks you what you think about it, tell her she looks great. You should compliment her on her new look as soon as you see her. Make sure that the compliment sounds believable. Sometimes it can be tricky finding the right tone to express your false excitement over her new look. Do not sound too excited or she will know that you’re lying. However, you also shouldn’t say something like, “It looks good,” or “You like nice.” These are sure to tell her that you hate everything about her new look. Instead, you can joking ask who she is, or you can say…

How to Nail the Perfect First Impression Online

An online relationship has a chance for two first impressions: online first impression, and in person first impression. If you don’t nail the first, you’re not going to get a chance at the second. Since a lot of online relationships don’t even get past those first few, awkward moments, the key is to focus on keeping her talking to you. The longer you talk, the higher the chance that she’s liking what she’s reading. Open with a Joke Don’t open with a knock-knock joke, or three paragraphs about a drunken Irishman. Open with a joke really means to open with a lighthearted interchange that she might appreciate. For example, if she lists a certain band on her profile whose third album is widely regarded to be terrible, you can open with a line about totally forgiving the band for the third album because the first two are the soundtrack to your life. This is just a bit of banter to show that you read her profile and the two of you totally have something in common. Give Her 3 Things to Respond To Knowing how long to make your opening message can be so tricky. You’re not going to get anywhere with most women with “hey, what’s up?” At the…

How to Nail the Perfect First Impression in Person

Every online relationship makes two first impressions. The first happens online, and involves first messages. If you successfully navigate that one, however, you actually have to put up with making a second first impression. This is when you roll up into the bar or restaurant where the two of you are going to meet in person for the first time. If you want to get things off on the right foot use these tips to keep your first impression totally under your control. Body Language to Project Confidence People like people who are confident. If you act like there are no flaws in you then she’s not going to go looking for them. As a man you can project confidence by squaring your shoulders and keeping your arms at your side. Make sure that you sit up straight, and sit slightly forward in your seat or barstool. This makes you look like a man of action, ever prepared to spring up. Don’t fidget. Tapping your fingers or feet, or tearing napkins into strips, or however you fidget is just asking not to be taken seriously. Be the strong, silent, still type. She’ll love you for it. Smile a lot. Smile an absurd amount. Smile so much that you think that…

How to Manage a No Strings Attached Relationship

Relationships with no strings attached can be great if you want to have a short, casual relationship with a woman with limited to no drama. However, this is oftentimes easier said than done because no strings attached relationships can be some of the most difficult to maintain. If you want to be able to keep things casual and free of drama, you need to carefully maintain your boundaries and know what not to do. Keeping some of these simple ideas and guidelines in mind when you try to establish a no strings attached relationship will go a long way towards keeping it as smooth and casual as possible. Establish and Maintain Your Boundaries Carefully The most important aspect of a no strings attached relationship is the boundaries that you establish and maintain. When you find a girl who wants to have a no strings attached relationship, you need to both go over your boundaries firmly. The point of having boundaries is so that things do not cross the line into romantic or serious if you are looking for a casual relationship. You should make sure you both know what you are comfortable with. Don’t exchange phone numbers unless that is how you want to contact each other, and make sure…

How to Keep Up with a High Maintenance Fling

There’s nothing wrong with having a taste for women who have expensive taste. You like something sophisticated, classy, and exclusive. So does she. You may be having the time of your life, but your bank account may be getting leaner by the day. So what do you do to minimize the costs of hanging on to a high maintenance fling? Take Her Somewhere Classy and Cheap If you want to appeal to her classy, cultured side, you can’t go wrong with art gallery openings. These are often free events with drinks you may or may not have to pay for. You can browse art by current artists, taking in style, sophistication, and mixing with an artsy crowd. She gets to dress up if she feels like it, but there’s no need to break out the evening dresses and black ties. This means that she looks great and you can wear ordinary date clothes. It also means that you can take her somewhere fancy and cheap that she can brag about for a few days. Another great boon to the guy with a picky girlfriend? Museums often have free or reduced price days for residents of their local area. This means that you can take her around, show her everything, and…

How to Introduce Her to Bondage without Freaking Her Out

If you have ever wanted to try and get kinky with a woman you are hooking up with, you might have noticed that it can sometimes be difficult to convince them that it’s a good idea to begin with. You shouldn’t let this put you off from at least attempting to get her to agree to trying out something kinky like bondage. It’s important to know how to introduce her to it so that she will not be freaked out by the idea of it. People have some big misconceptions about BDSM and bondage in general, so you need to try and make her comfortable with the idea. There are several ways you can do this, and if you keep them in mind when you get started you may be surprised by what you can convince her to try. Make it Sound Appealing to Her The most important aspect when trying to convince a woman to try something new is making her think that it will be amazing for her. She is not going to want to try something that she thinks she is not going to enjoy, which is why it can be so difficult to convince women to try anal. Convincing her that she will enjoy herself is…

How to Get Her out of Bed after Sex

The night went as well as you’d planned. Congratulations, the fun part’s over and now you’ve got a woman in your bed. Sometimes that’s not a problem, but if for one reason or another you really want to sleep alone tonight you’re going to have to get creative. Here are three great ways to get her out of bed and on the road after sex. Make It Unpleasant for Her to Stay The first thing that you have to do is stop her from going to sleep. If she’s sleeping peacefully, you’re stuck with her until morning. As soon after sex as you can, get the TV on. Turn it up. Put it on some boring station that would annoy anyone in their right minds, let the weather channel or someone with a droning voice reading stock prices twenty-four hours a day. If that doesn’t bother her, find a slasher film. Say that you have to have the TV on in order to fall asleep. If there’s a way to make your room warmer or colder without bothering you too much, do that. If she’s baking, she’s not going to want to cuddle up. If she’s freezing, on the other hand, she’s not going to want to stay at all.…

Hooking Up In Spite of a Small Dick

We live in a world where size matters. The size of your car, the size of your house, and of course the size of your dick. But what you’re not being told is that size doesn’t always mean being big. Have you heard the phrase, “It’s not the size of the boat it’s the motion in the ocean”? It’s entirely true. Most men who are well endowed rely on the fact that they’ve got some big equipment and don’t bother doing much else besides squirm around on top of her. So even though you aren’t necessarily going to wow her when your pants drop, you are going to have the opportunity to completely surprise her. She might not expect a lot from your tiny man, but she’ll get more than she bargained for. It’s All About Confidence When you’re out at the bar and you’re putting on all of your best moves, it can seem like a waste of time if you’re not confident in your own game. Sure, you might have the negative view of “Why bother?” but you’re only stopping yourself before you’ve even started. Having confidence is sexy in and of itself, but it’s also essential when you’re packing smaller equipment than other guys. We all want…

Habits that Will Turn Her Off

Everyone has their habits, but sometimes our habits may be huge turnoffs to women. You may not even be aware that your habits are turning women off until you go to ask them for a second date and they decline or ignore your phone calls. When you’re planning to meet up with a woman, make sure your habits don’t send her running before she can even get to know you. Put Away Your Phone If you plan to impress women, one of the first things you need to do is put away your cell phone. While you may think texting or business phone calls will make you look professional, they usually have the opposite effect. Each time you pull out your phone, a woman feels like you aren’t paying any attention to her. She may also feel like she’s boring you or that you have someone more interesting to talk to. The moment she starts to feel this way, you can cancel hooking up with her ever again. She will feel like you disrespected her and will most definitely ignore your phone calls. If there is no way that you can avoid not answering various texts and phone calls while you’re with her, let her know ahead of time that…

Going to Your First Orgy

If you end up being able to hookup with a bunch of girls and guys (or whatever you fancy), then you’re definitely in for a treat. That being said, we know a lot of guys that are pretty overwhelmed by the idea of showing up to an orgy, so it’s good to know a little bit about what to expect, as well as to be prepared for whatever might be thrown at you. Fortunately, orgies are generally fun, exciting, and offer a lot of opportunities that you wouldn’t otherwise have in hookups. That’s why it’s good to keep an open mind, and in general, just be up for a ton of fun. Don’t Be Gross You really don’t want to be the oddball in the group that smells like sweat and balls and didn’t shower. Take the time to really clean yourself up before an orgy, because if you want the attention that you deserve, you really need to make sure that you’re clean, fresh, and looking your best. If you feel the need to shave, then you should definitely do that as well. Either grow a beard or don’t show up with five o’clock shadow; it’s just not cute, and it’s really not going to end up impressing anyone…

Getting Your Fling to Do the Weird Stuff

If you’re one of the countless guys who is into the weird stuff then you probably think that you won’t find a real life woman to ever do them with. Sure, she’s down for some light spanking or even hair pulling, but gag her with your dick once and she’s all uppity. Don’t stress it though, you can find a fling who’s going to be down to try the weirder things. Stake Her Out When you’re out looking for women you can’t expect to just pick one and start hitting on her. The whole game of having good accuracy when it comes to picking up a female is to wait. You’re like some underwater sea creature with your jaws open wide. She’ll see you and be just as attracted to you as you are to her. Then when she comes near you, you sink your teeth in. It’s not the perfect metaphor, but you get the idea. Attraction is a key factor in picking up women period. But when you’re trying to find one who’s especially kinky then attraction is your best bet. Without realizing it people who have similar bedroom interests will be drawn to each other simply by the subconscious way we act around them. So put out…

Getting Her Hot Before You Even See Her

Most guys can manage to get a woman at least a little bit wet before having sex. But that’s pretty common among our kind. The real challenge is to get her completely hot for you before you even enter her. Does that still not sound quite daring enough for you? What about having her complete turned-on and waiting for you before you even see her that night? That sounds more like it. The best part is that it’s not even that hard to do. The Power of Words Women will absolutely melt if you say the right things to them. Whispering in her ear is a clich

Getting a Redo: Convincing Her to Go out Again Even If the Date Flopped

First dates go bad with depressing frequency. If you haven’t already prepared for this, you’re going to lose your chance with a great woman you like. If you don’t think that the bad date was her fault (or a result of incompatibility), then you should still try to get a redo. There’s an art to convincing a woman who just went on one bad date to maybe go on another, and here’s the way that you should do it. Set Her up for Feeling Bad for You Pity isn’t the most noble of reasons to get a second date, but when you’re on thin ice you take what you can get. You can wow her with the second date, but first you have to have a second date. You can slip in lines on the wind down from a bad date that will make her feel bad for you and good about herself. “I haven’t been on a date with a woman as pretty as you for awhile,” is a good example of this. Does it make you look like a knight in shining armor? No. But if you can suffer the indignity you can get your image back later. Make a Case for a Bad Date Not Being Your…

Four Ways to Look More Confident Right Away

Every guy gets first date jitters sometimes. If you’re looking for a way to cover your nerves and give you an edge on the date right from the start, there’s good news for you. There’s actually for really easy ways that will set you down the path of projecting the confidence that women love. Straighten Your Posture Bring those shoulders back and suck in your belly and you’ll instantly look much more confident. Try to relax into the pose. Keep your feet just inside shoulder width apart when you stand. You’ll be projecting a solid foundation and making yourself more fit while you do it. The ladies love to see a man who can hold his own, so don’t be afraid to take up space. No Thrifting Old clothes and used clothes are a great way to save money when you’re hanging around the house. For dates, though, you should always wear clothes at least purchased in the last year. This ensures that you’ll be at least close to current trends. It also means that these clothes will probably not look overly worn. Crisp, clean clothes without wear marks or holes say that you’re a man who looks after his appearance. This makes you look like a polished kind of…

Finding the Woman Who Just Wants to Hook Up

) If you spend a lot of time cruising bars and clubs to meet women, chances are that you are not there to find your future long term girlfriend or future wife. You probably want to meet a woman you can have a one night stand or short term relationship with, and you want to find the women who want the same thing. Trying to hook up with women who want something more serious rarely goes well. However, it can be difficult to find women who seem to want the same thing as you do. If you know the signs of a woman who just wants to hook up, you can save a lot of time when cruising bars and clubs and know exactly who to beeline towards. She’s Dressed to Impress While this is not always true, it holds some truth to it and is worth looking out for. Women who are more modestly dressed at bars and clubs are probably there just to drink and dance or to find a man they can date. Women who are dressed more sexily – short skirt or dress, high heels, heavy makeup – are probably there looking for a guy they can spend the night with. This isn’t to say that…

Filming Your Own Porn

Most guys watch porn, it’s just a fact of life. The sexy women getting slammed by a dude is sexy to begin with, but even past that there are all sorts of varieties. From plain old fashioned vanilla man and woman having sex up to the crazy pecan praline that is gang-banging. But the personal favorite of any red-blooded man would be the homemade sex tape. The woman is obviously sexy to you because you picked her to have sex with. You get to call the shots and reap the benefits. The only hard part is convincing her to let you film. Drop Hints The best way to go about making homemade porn is to make her think it’s her idea. Drop hints about what assholes guys can be when they show off the sexy pictures or videos their partners gave them. You, of course, would never think of doing such a thing. Another route would be to tell her that she would be great in porn. Tell her often how sexy she is and that you’ve never seen another woman do the things that she does. If only there was some way to keep a record of her amazing moves…huh. The Subtle Approach ) When you’re having a few…

Easy Fixes to Make You Appear More Attractive

When you’re tired of your look or just want to make yourself appear more attractive to women, there are a few different things you can do that you may not have even considered. Most of these things you can do at home on your own time. However, if you want professional help, it isn’t very expensive and you’ll leave with a wealth of knowledge about how to make yourself sexier for women. Fix the Facial Hair ) A lot of times, something as simple as trimming your facial hair can make you appear more attractive to women. Some women are not fans of facial hair and if you have a lot of it, you may notice that some women won’t give you the time of day. If you’re not willing to part with your facial hair, you may be able to trim it up to make it appear more symmetrical and aesthetically pleasing. Even if you have a full beard, try to make sure it’s cut in a way where you don’t have too many long and uneven pieces. You will also want to make sure your facial hair is clean. Nothing will turn a woman of quicker then noticing that you have food in your mustache or beard. Keep…

Do More Work Than Your Man Parts: Not Relying On Being Well-endowed

Some men are blessed with being well-endowed, it’s just the truth. Obviously we’re talking penis size here, not what their lifestyle is packing. Dicks are sort of a gamble. While there are stereotypes like black men having bigger equipment it’s not even always true. You’re born with what you get and you’ve got to make the most of it. That counts for you power-packing guys, too. Just because you’ve come out with a bigger dick than other guys doesn’t mean that you get to lay down on the job. You’ll have just as much work to do as the rest of us, if not more. Why You Can’t Just Hang Out When it comes to sex some well-endowed men think that they can just shove it in and wiggle around. There’s a stereotype that the woman will just orgasm the minute your mountainous cock comes near her trim. Again, that’s not always true even a little bit. Often times you’ll find that she might not be able to take all that manhood and it will hurt her like hell. Getting too excited and thrusting too hard can actually puncture her on the inside and keep her out of the sex game for a while. How You Can Use It to…

Convincing Her and Her Friend to Have a Threesome

) Getting women to have a threesome with you is pretty easy when all is said and done. If you have a regular hookup, this ends up being that much easier because hey, you already have two parts of that triangle. It’s just a matter of getting your hookup’s friend to join in, and honestly, there are a lot of ways to make this happen pretty seamlessly. You just have to be confident about what you want, and really just go for it. You won’t ever get what you want if you don’t ask for it, and for the most part, hookups are very laid back. That means, ultimately, you’ll get what you want out of this sort of thing with very minimal effort. Chat About It First It’s time to really talk to your hookup about what you want out of your relationship. If you want a threesome with her and her hot friend, tell her. The worst she is going to do is roll her eyes at you and tell you to dream on, and if that’s the case, just move onto the next girl that you know will actually do it. If she seems pretty willing, though, it’s time to talk about what you want to do…

Best Places to Have Dinner On a First Date

When choosing where to have dinner on a first date, there are a few things to take into consideration. You want to make sure that you and your date have an enjoyable time. You also want to make sure that she is comfortable while she is with you. You can do that easily by making sure she is comfortable with her surroundings while on a date with you. Stick with Something Casual When you’re taking a woman on a date for the first time, you will want to stick with something casual. While many men like to impress women by taking them to fancy restaurants, it seems that this isn’t always the best idea. Sometimes you may end up on a date with someone you absolutely despise after meeting them in person. You will regret spending a lot of money on them by taking them someplace fancy and then never seeing them again. Even if you end up liking the person you’re on a date with, when you take her to place that is too upscale, she will expect you to outdo yourself with the next date. When you are dating, you want to go from typical to amazing, not the other way around. You will also want to make…

Avoiding Giving Her Mixed Signals

Sending mixed signals is probably something that you think women do exclusively, and not men. However, you may be surprised to know that guys can do this just as often and it could be a reason why a woman ultimately decides not to give you her number or go out with you. Sending mixed signals are usually not something that a man or woman does intentionally, but it can be frustrating to all parties involved nonetheless. Knowing what can qualify as a mixed signal and knowing how to avoid it will help you attract women more often and it will also help you recognize it when women do it to you. Acting Hot and Cold is Never a Good Idea The main behavior that qualifies as sending mixed signals is when you act hot and cold, or when you react positively to a woman at one point but then react negatively to her at another moment. This is usually something that you don’t do consciously or on purpose, but if you do it enough it can become seriously annoying or distressing to the woman you are talking to. You should try to be positive at all times, and if you disagree with something she says then you should try to…

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