Getting Your Fling to Do the Weird Stuff

If you’re one of the countless guys who is into the weird stuff then you probably think that you won’t find a real life woman to ever do them with. Sure, she’s down for some light spanking or even hair pulling, but gag her with your dick once and she’s all uppity. Don’t stress it though, you can find a fling who’s going to be down to try the weirder things.

Stake Her Out

"Have some patience"

“Have some patience”

When you’re out looking for women you can’t expect to just pick one and start hitting on her. The whole game of having good accuracy when it comes to picking up a female is to wait. You’re like some underwater sea creature with your jaws open wide. She’ll see you and be just as attracted to you as you are to her. Then when she comes near you, you sink your teeth in. It’s not the perfect metaphor, but you get the idea. Attraction is a key factor in picking up women period. But when you’re trying to find one who’s especially kinky then attraction is your best bet. Without realizing it people who have similar bedroom interests will be drawn to each other simply by the subconscious way we act around them. So put out your lure and wait.

Doing It from the Beginning

"Give her a hint that you want something kinky"

“Give her a hint that you want something kinky”

From the moment she comes near you and starts talking you up you’ve got to be forward with your sexual interests. This doesn’t necessarily mean that you’ve got to come on strong, but as soon as the convo turns to sex you need to start dropping clues about liking the kinky stuff. Talking about spanking, hardcore sex, and being rough will give her clues that you’re really not kidding here. If she’s following along and matching you blow for blow then you know you’ve got a contender.

Let’s Get It On

So she’s been talking the talk, now let’s see if she can walk the walk. Getting home and making out is the easy part now. Once you’ve landed in the bedroom have typical sex with her, but with a twist. Take opportunities to talk dirty, smack her ass, and generally be a little more rough than normal. Always listen in case she doesn’t like it, but don’t completely stop when she protests. Dial it back and try something different. This will give you a sense of what she can handle. Now if you’re planning on keeping this fling going then you can keep working it up more and more when she comes over. Her coming back for more is a sign that she’s down for at least some of the kinkier things in life. S

Add More Spice

Each time that you’re with her tell her something that makes you really hot. Maybe it’s facial abuse, maybe it’s fisting. Whatever you want to try mentioning it to her and talking the steps over. If you seem like you’re well informed on your kink she’s going to trust you more. From there out it’s only keeping everything safe and having all the weird sex you thought you’d never get.


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