How to Introduce Her to Bondage without Freaking Her Out

"Make sure your idea does not frighten her"

“Make sure your idea does not frighten her”


If you have ever wanted to try and get kinky with a woman you are hooking up with, you might have noticed that it can sometimes be difficult to convince them that it’s a good idea to begin with. You shouldn’t let this put you off from at least attempting to get her to agree to trying out something kinky like bondage. It’s important to know how to introduce her to it so that she will not be freaked out by the idea of it. People have some big misconceptions about BDSM and bondage in general, so you need to try and make her comfortable with the idea. There are several ways you can do this, and if you keep them in mind when you get started you may be surprised by what you can convince her to try.

Make it Sound Appealing to Her

"Introduce blindfolds into your sex life"

“Introduce blindfolds into your sex life”


The most important aspect when trying to convince a woman to try something new is making her think that it will be amazing for her. She is not going to want to try something that she thinks she is not going to enjoy, which is why it can be so difficult to convince women to try anal. Convincing her that she will enjoy herself is a major step in getting her to agree. You should make sure that she knows the focus will be on her and her pleasure. Also try talking up the benefits of having kinky sex, and tell her about how bondage will heighten her pleasure beyond what vanilla sex offers her. The more appealing you make it sound for her, the more likely she will be to want to give it a shot.

Always Start Slowly: the More Vanilla, the Better

You never want to jump right into the really freaky stuff when you try to introduce a woman to bondage. Start with the really tame bondage, like fuzzy handcuffs or blindfolds. This may be slightly boring to you, but it’s a good introduction to the idea of bondage and can be a good way of getting women to agree to try something a bit more kinky. Make sure that you slowly increase the level of intensity when it comes to what you introduce her to so that you don’t freak her out. Also make sure not to demand that you try something with bondage every time you have sex, so that she doesn’t get tired of it.

Keep Her Comfortable

Making sure that the woman you’re sleeping with is turned on is a great way to keep her interested in bondage. Spend more time than you normally would on foreplay so that you know she’s feeling excited and ready to try something new. The more turned on she gets, the more likely she will be to want to try something new that might possibly frighten her under normal circumstances. Not to mention that the more pleasure you give her, the more likely she will be to want to keep trying bondage.

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