How to Nail the Perfect First Impression in Person

"Show her some chivalry"

“Show her some chivalry”

Every online relationship makes two first impressions. The first happens online, and involves first messages. If you successfully navigate that one, however, you actually have to put up with making a second first impression. This is when you roll up into the bar or restaurant where the two of you are going to meet in person for the first time. If you want to get things off on the right foot use these tips to keep your first impression totally under your control.

Body Language to Project Confidence

People like people who are confident. If you act like there are no flaws in you then she’s not going to go looking for them. As a man you can project confidence by squaring your shoulders and keeping your arms at your side. Make sure that you sit up straight, and sit slightly forward in your seat or barstool. This makes you look like a man of action, ever prepared to spring up.

Don’t fidget. Tapping your fingers or feet, or tearing napkins into strips, or however you fidget is just asking not to be taken seriously. Be the strong, silent, still type. She’ll love you for it.

Smile a lot. Smile an absurd amount. Smile so much that you think that she must be suspicious of all this smiling. Smiling is the single best way to boost the look of confidence and to get a similar response from others. You really can’t smile too much!

Mirroring to Gain Her Trust

"Pay attention to what she says"

“Pay attention to what she says”

This subtle body language technique is simple to use and very effective. It makes you aware of the singles that she’s sending and helps you reply in kind with some of your own. Simply follow the flow of movement that she’s giving out. If she crosses her legs, cross your legs. If she touches your arm, let the conversation move on a little bit and then do the same. Try to tilt your head the same that she tilts hers. These tiny cues tell her that you’re listening, and more importantly, that you understand her. You feel the same way that she feels, and this increases your likeability without you actually having to do much of anything.

Avoid Controversial Subjects

This always includes religion and politics. Because even if you think you’re on the same page about everything, you’re probably not. You can both be atheists, for example, but maybe her father is a minister and she doesn’t like the idea of you calling him deluded. Avoid loaded language, insults, and so forth. You’re basically walking blindfolded through a field of landmines on a first date. Try to take as few risks as possible. This doesn’t mean that you can’t have an opinion! It just means to try to say things like, “I didn’t like that album,” instead of “That album sucks and everyone who likes it is a moron.” Just to be on the safe side.

If you stick to these guidelines you’ll be in control of the image that you project to women. Once you have that in the bag, nothing else can touch you.


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