Making a Fling Profile Pop

There are a lot of men looking to hookup online. You can throw together a fun fling profile in just a couple of minutes. Then time goes by and you start to wonder if you’re getting as many hits as you could be. Does your profile make you stand out from the pack, or are you getting lost in the crowd? Evaluate your profile in these lights to see if you’re doing what you can to make your profile pop.

What Makes a Great Profile Pic

"It is okay to show your muscles in your picture"

“It is okay to show your muscles in your picture”

You don’t want to have a picture of your sweet smiling face as your profile picture. When you’re trying to turn up the romance, flash those puppy dog eyes to get a woman to fall for you. When you’re just trying to get her to fall into your bed, skip those and focus on making your picture dynamic. Show that you’re an exciting guy. Sell her the idea of a fling as something fun and exciting. Flashing your abs in the bathroom isn’t as bad as a regular headshot, but you could do better. A great profile pic would be an action shot of you playing sports in the rain.

Hobbies to Interest Her

"Write about the things which you love to do"

“Write about the things which you love to do”

Your hobbies aren’t there to really tell her about yourself. You’re looking for a fling, so here’s where you do a little editing. You might love to play poker, but that’s not exciting. Scrap it unless you can add “and I make my living winning high stakes tournaments across the globe.” You want to paint a picture of the kind of things that you could do with and for your fling. Protip: include a lot of physical activities like windsurfing, hiking, bike riding, and so forth. If most of your hobbies are vigorous and outdoors related, you can pretty much guarantee that heavier women are going to sense that you’re not her kind of guy. This will be less awkward for everyone.

Just like your profile pic, remember that you’re selling her this idea of what being with you would be like. Include hobbies and interests that promote the image that you want to see promoted. If you don’t have enough of these hobbies to make this plan work, there’s your first problem right there. Crafting a great fling profile can also be a bit of a self-improvement list.

Direct Is Best

If you say that you’re looking for love or romance you might have more women stick around, but you’re not going to get what you want. If this is a fling profile for whirlwind romances and one night stand style hookups only, make it clear that you’re not looking for anything else. If you want a fling with a woman who wants a relationship, you’re going to be wasting time and money. There are women out there who just want to hookup for the night or the weekend. If you make it clear that’s what you want, you’ll be able to find them faster.

Rewrite and relaunch your profile under these guidelines, and you’ll be surprised how quickly you start reeling in the dates.


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